Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Mariah and Nick Done?

Wow, just read that MC and Nick are done!

This is terribly sad, MC's second marriage, and the poor kids.  I wonder how long they've been dealing with their issues, while staying for the kids.  It's sad when the cycle seems to repeat itself.  (her mom and dad separated)
It seems though, that breakups and heartache make the most amazing albums.  Perhaps we one day we will hear what happened through MC's music.  You can still hear remnants in some of her later material concerning what went down with her and Tommy Mottolla and that ended back in the 90s.  Some scars do run deep, however.

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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Having each others back

One of the best feelings is when there are days when you're down or things aren't going so well and your other half knows how to say or do something that lessens life's stresses and makes you feel all better.

This has to be one of the most positive aspects of being in a partnership with someone you love and understands you.

Its magical when synergy develops and your mate instinctively knows when your down and knows what to do to lift you back up.


Friday, August 22, 2014

Nick and Mariah Split

Nick confirms split with Mariah

Wow, another couple on the outs.

This just reminds me that every couple is human regardless of financial or social status.  We all deal with the same issues and one of the main ones is getting along and co-existing in harmony.  This is not easy.  Finding a mate is just step one but then so much work and sacriface and compromise goes into making it work and last.  I can only imagine how money, fame, and having children complicates the problems they already have btw the two of them.

I wish both well and hope they can find a solution that doesn't involve a permanent breakup.

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

A Year of Firsts....

Think back for a moment and recall the first year with your significant other.....

Do you remember your first date?  How about that first kiss?  The first time you made love?


Time is so fast when you're having fun.  Any bunch of firsts can be fun, exciting, scary, and thrilling.  How often do you sit down with your other half and go down memory lane.  Do you two ever disagree on the exact details?  How does this make you feel?

Try making a list of first and compare answers.  If this list of firsts evokes special good feelings, try to figure out and focus on what made those things make you feel a certain way.  Think of how fun it would be to experience those feelings again and again.


Tuesday, August 19, 2014

It bothers me when you......

Is there a particular thing that your boyfriend or girlfriend does that just irritates your soul or your core to the bone?  Does your guy obsessively shave his legs and then the prickly stubble that grows back, freaks you out when you're in bed?

Share your situations or things that bother you.

Monday, August 18, 2014

When the honeymoons over....

So most people look forward to being in a new relationship and having that love, the support, and romance that goes along with it, but eventually the honeymoon period ends and as they say "sh*t gets real".  What happens when both sides lets their hair down?

We will explore topics like these in this blog because these are among the most interesting parts of the pairing and where a lot of people tend to fail and the partnership doesn't last.  Relationships have bright sides but dark ones as well.  

Our intent will be to shed light on any topic that touches a nerve and is useful to our couples out there.



Dream Trip

What is your idea of a dream getaway?  What time of year would be ideal for this trek?

I love the fall and its especially pretty in NYC this time of year.